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    We should get to know the person we are dealing with before meeting them in person. Could it be that they have a criminal record? Could it be that they're already married? Or maybe they've made some time to see you since their kids are asleep. I wanted to hear some of your stories about how a settled date slowly fades. My first date instantly become an epic fail I was planning to surprise him on his birthday but his girlfriend told me to stay away. I ended up blocking both of them lol.

  • #2
    My first date went well, but he promised that we'll be seeing each other in a day or two but he decided to ghost me instead lol.

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    • tolerable
      tolerable commented
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      loss77 I am glad that you are like that. There are some girls who have an intention to ruin others relationship.

    • loss77
      loss77 commented
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      tolerable Yeah, and I don't get them, I mean why do they do that? they would not get rich if they kept doing that.

    • tolerable
      tolerable commented
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      Maybe it's their nature to ruin relationships? lol loss77

  • #3
    I think that dating someone who has children already shouldn't be considered as a failed first date. Just because you're not into them, it doesn't mean that everybody needs to follow suit

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    • Gotchya
      Gotchya commented
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      Well, there's a downside when it comes to dating with people who have children especially if they're still young. If it ends up being a serious relationship you would probably end up being your partners second priority since his or her children will be the first one

    • AglowNum
      AglowNum commented
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      I agree with Gotchya to this one.

    • LoveHoney
      LoveHoney commented
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      What is the connection of having kids with dating? You could have dates with people who have kids.

  • #4
    I accept the fact that my first dates only happens once and nothing else follows. It didn't fail unless they try to ditch me or let me pay all the bills lol.

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    • lilpup
      lilpup commented
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      Can't believe that guys wouldn't try and have a second date with someone like you

    • AngstAngels
      AngstAngels commented
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      I make sure I split the bills with my dates, it would only be a failure if he tries to convince me that he's out of cash or forgot his wallet.

    • TastySanta
      TastySanta commented
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      AngstAngels If he said that he forgot his wallet, then he was just fooling you. For sure, no one would forget such an important thing.

  • #5
    Why the need to talk about failed first dates? Because there's a chance in which most of the members here had more successful first dates rather than bad ones

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    • JustaGuy99
      JustaGuy99 commented
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      She might be looking for people who are like her. Women who often ends up having terrible first dates

    • Championia
      Championia commented
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      But did you have any fail dates as well moneymoney?

    • wigeon
      wigeon commented
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      Championia I feel that he had his fair share of failed dates. Maybe he just wanted to focus on the ones that ended on a good note

  • #6
    After a successful date night, my date was escorted by cops outside the restaurant and put him in handcuffs. I was unaware that he was caught stealing earlier that day and I got checked as well to s3ee if I was his accomplice. Probably the worst experience ever!

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    • bollersdiorite
      bollersdiorite commented
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      If he was caught stealing during the day, why was he able to go out on a date with you?

    • Readeronic
      Readeronic commented
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      Was the police too slow to catch him earlier that day? What took them so long before he was arrested at night?

  • #7
    This happened a couple of weeks ago. I went out with this girl that I met at a bar a few days prior. The date was going well, until her parents suddenly facetimed her. When I introduced myself to her folks, her mom suddenly asks me when I'm planning to propose to her daughter
    Last edited by imahappyclown; 08-27-2019, 07:25 AM.

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    • BabyPie
      BabyPie commented
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      Well, her mom acted quickly. So what was your reaction?

    • TeaStory
      TeaStory commented
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      Why would her parents facetime her at a time and place like that? Lol, she should've told them that she would call them first. That was awkward.

  • #8
    This happened to my friend. She had a first date with this guy that he met online. The date was going well until the guy proposes to her. She then freaks out and made scene

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    • flabbybecrux
      flabbybecrux commented
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      I wonder what was he thinking when your friend reacted negatively about the proposal

    • KatVonMe
      KatVonMe commented
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      sunnyscenster No failed date yet that is why I remembered my friend who had one. And I hope that I would not have one.

    • KatVonMe
      KatVonMe commented
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      flabbybecrux He must have been shocked as he was not expecting that my friend would gonna create a scene. But, anyway, he was at fault. Why would someone propose on the first date? Was he out of his mind?

  • #9
    I had a date with a girl who has allergies on certain foods, has skin allergy and has to take so many medications. I wouldn't want to be with someone like that since I'm sensitive about health issues.

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    • #10
      Originally posted by butterflyanxious View Post
      My first date instantly become an epic fail I was planning to surprise him on his birthday but his girlfriend told me to stay away.
      What was your surprise to him? Did you come unannounced to surprise him and you were the one who was surprised when you got to his place and saw the girlfriend?

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      • #11
        As for those failed first dates, we must be thankful that they happened. Why? Because it would be added to the rich part of our lives.

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