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    Dating with one guy, knew him from date app for a week, in the second date, he told me he just broke up with his ex early this year, then he started to use date app and gave a try.
    I looked for users by searching his username in the app, found similar username, I thought ''wait a minute, the profile pics look like the same person, they have the same age and location', then I found a profile he previously used, from the summary description, I guess he started to build it four years ago, last online time is early last year. Actually, he asked me before why I used this app, he said he doesn't want to hook up, that he wants conversation, accompany relationship, and see things where it goes. But he did ask me some intimacy questions, then he said, never mind, maybe it wasn't the appropriate time. We did make out on the second date. He texted me every day but without calls, I feel like he doesn't have the interest to know me better.

    At this moment, I have no idea, is he a liar, he actually just wants to hook up.

  • #2
    Maybe he saw that the two of you would will end up nowhere that is why he ghosted you after the second date

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    • Gotchya
      Gotchya commented
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      You should frankly ask him

    • lipspotatochips
      lipspotatochips commented
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      wigeon he might be the type who doesn't want to soften the blow so to speak when it comes to telling a girl that it won't work out for the both of them

    • wigeon
      wigeon commented
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      I think I don't need to ask him already. I heard a news that he's really a guy who's into hookups. fuck him

  • #3
    I think he's just looking for someone to fuck. Basing on his shit ass story, just broke up with someone and just wants to talk, I say he's just baiting you on giving it in. But who knows, try not giving it yet and see if he's gonna really go with it or give up.

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    • wigeon
      wigeon commented
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      Yeah, I think I'll wait a little bit more.

    • Bang56
      Bang56 commented
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      Typical baiting strategy, lol

  • #4
    You should be lucky that all you guys did was make out and nothing else and that you didn't end up being his rebound

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    • #5
      Maybe he was testing if he is ready to date again or not. And sadly, you're the one that he used as a test subject

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      • FieryCloudz25
        FieryCloudz25 commented
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        That's one harsh way to look at it. But I think you're might on to something

      • babycakez23
        babycakez23 commented
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        We never know what his intentions are. maybe we will find out soon.

    • #6
      Can you tell us why you think that he's lying to you first? Not sure where you're coming from on this one since he has mentioned "see things where it goes" and there is a chance that he saw that this would lead to nowhere that is why he ended up ghosting you

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      • #7
        Sounds like he just want to slide himself inside you

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        • #8
          He might be doing this for a long time now. Listen to what your guy says.

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          • #9
            You shouldn't expect something from that guy, forget about him. Some men are just jerks.

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            • #10
              If he stopped messaging you or contacting you just have it that way. Don't make it so hard for your self.

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              • #11
                Originally posted by wigeon View Post
                Dating with one guy, knew him from date app for a week, in the second date, he told me he just broke up with his ex early this year, then he started to use date app and gave a try.
                I looked for users by searching his username in the app, found similar username, I thought ''wait a minute, the profile pics look like the same person, they have the same age and location', then I found a profile he previously used, from the summary description, I guess he started to build it four years ago, last online time is early last year. Actually, he asked me before why I used this app, he said he doesn't want to hook up, that he wants conversation, accompany relationship, and see things where it goes. But he did ask me some intimacy questions, then he said, never mind, maybe it wasn't the appropriate time. We did make out on the second date. He texted me every day but without calls, I feel like he doesn't have the interest to know me better.

                At this moment, I have no idea, is he a liar, he actually just wants to hook up.
                dudes are total flakes these days.. not much can be said. I wouldn't bother, probably has a raging case of HPV from all the 'online dates'

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                • imahappyclown
                  imahappyclown commented
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                  Isn't that HPV should be because of seeing each other in the bars or somewhere else?

              • #12
                I know these people on these sites lie so much that they can't even keep their story straight I'm so turned off by the dishonesty that runs rampant through this why can't people just be straight up like who cares have you been on this dating site when you were dating somebody okay then you weren't really into that person you were dating no big deal just be honest though I can't stand this shit after you lie to me once I just never look at you the same that's all you ruin it

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