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  • Friends To Lovers?

    When it comes to being in relationships, which do you actually prefer? Being friends with the person first or dating the person immediately?

  • #2
    I personally prefer the latter since I don't want to ruin what I have with my female friends. Also it is quite hard to date someone who started as your friend. Because once your relationship is over, you would lose not only a partner, but also a friend.

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    • heartlistener
      heartlistener commented
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      I think this only applies to short-time friends if you will lose them over or it depends on the cause of the breakup.

    • dandeliontoes
      dandeliontoes commented
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      Have you actually dated someone who started as a friend that's why you know that there's a chance that you would not only lose a girlfriend but a friend as well once the two of you break up?

    • furphyobserved
      furphyobserved commented
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      dandeliontoes yes, I did experienced it once in my teenage years that is why after I became more careful as I don't wanna lose a friend again.

  • #3
    I've been in relationships where I've been with both. And I'm more comfortable that we started as friends since I get to know the her well first and can easily adjust once we became a couple.

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    • snoogywookie
      snoogywookie commented
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      Are you still friends with those exes who started as your friend or the friendship ended as well?

    • veggieperker
      veggieperker commented
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      We're still friends but of course it isn't like before.

  • #4
    It much more exciting if both of you will be friends at first then if your feeling is sorted out then maybe it's time for the next stage which is dating.

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    • lilpup
      lilpup commented
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      Don't you think that it will be strange if you're doing it with a person that was your friend first?

    • lie11
      lie11 commented
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      KatVonMe That's okay. I mean its okay have a date first right?

    • lie11
      lie11 commented
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      KatVonMe That's okay. I mean its okay have a date first right?

  • #5
    I would go with the latter because I prefer to slowly get to know the person every time that we go out. Rather than being comfortable with the person immediately since we're friends from the start.

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    • skuzzvibe
      skuzzvibe commented
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      But have you dated a guy that started out as your friend? Or you made sure that never happened?

    • ingotjubilant
      ingotjubilant commented
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      skuzzvibe I made sure it don't happen. I don't really like dating someone I already considered as a friend

  • #6
    It all depends on the guy. There are guys who are better as friends first before turning into lover and others who fall in being lovers immediately.

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    • moneymoney
      moneymoney commented
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      And which one of them often ends up being your boyfriend? Is it the first one or second?

    • clumsygirl
      clumsygirl commented
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      Well if the guy is a boyfriend material then it's best if you choose to date him first.

  • #7
    I will have to go with the date the person immediately and I already got tons of friends and I don't need one lol. I want more dates especially this year.

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    • Pedaedia
      Pedaedia commented
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      You got a point there lol but do you have any friends that you want to date?

    • JustaGuy99
      JustaGuy99 commented
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      What are you going to do if one of your male friends asked you out for a date? Are you going to go out with him or you would reject him?

    • fuckashuck
      fuckashuck commented
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      JustaGuy99 I'll reject him, I don't want things to be awkward between us.

  • #8
    I'll go with date immediately and it's a bit challenging especially if it's blind dates and I wanted to be surprised by my date.

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    • Bang56
      Bang56 commented
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      funfun88 Not that much. I only do it if I want to, you know when you feel you want to do it.

    • funfun88
      funfun88 commented
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      Oh, I thought you always do that to all your dates. Bang56

    • Bang56
      Bang56 commented
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      funfun88 Nope, because sometimes I just feel that I only like to date and nothing more. but sometimes I get horny, so yeah.

  • #9
    I've tried dating from both sides and I would say that I'm more comfortable dating guys that were not my friends.

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    • financialcowbird
      financialcowbird commented
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      shizzlygizzly yup, but the chance of achieving that is lower than the chance of things not working as we want them to be.

    • shizzlygizzly
      shizzlygizzly commented
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      financialcowbird but there's a chance although its just low, don't you want to take that risk?

    • financialcowbird
      financialcowbird commented
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      shizzlygizzly I don't want to bet our friendship with that low chance and I don't think it will be worth the risk.

  • #10
    I will date her immediately because if we become friends at first then maybe I'll get stuck there and be friend-zoned so its best to get the opportunity of dating her first.

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    • loss77
      loss77 commented
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      What if the girl wants to be your friend first and doesn't date guys immediately?

    • imahappyclown
      imahappyclown commented
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      How many times have you been placed in the friendzone? Are you still friends with those ladies or not?

  • #11
    I'm more comfortable with dating a guy who wasn't my friend first. I feel strange going out with a guy that I consider as a friend or even a close friend.

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    • Masterbabe
      Masterbabe commented
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      Have you actually went out with a friend before? Also did you ask yourself why you're doing it?

    • wigeon
      wigeon commented
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      Masterbabe I tried going out with a friend before but I still prefer guys who ask me out for the first time of meeting.

  • #12
    I like being friends with the person first so I'll know if we can have great chemistry together and I am not fond of awkward and boring dates.

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    • lipspotatochips
      lipspotatochips commented
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      There might be a chance that your date would be a little awkward considering the two of you are friends.

    • PieDish
      PieDish commented
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      lipspotatochips yes, there's awkwardness at first but it doesn't last longer than 20 minutes lol.

    • loss77
      loss77 commented
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      Yeah I agree, because for me, I should know what we like first so when we are going to date I already know what we want. I mean I already know how to handle stuff that we want or like.

  • #13
    Most of the guys I have been with started as friends since they were the types who want to make sure that the girl likes them as well before making a move.

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    • innocentgirl
      innocentgirl commented
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      You got a lot of patient friends right there. Some guys ask you out immediately if they find you hot.

    • koshercassanova
      koshercassanova commented
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      So you've never been with a guy who immediately asked you out?

  • #14
    I'm fond of big dates and I would jump to dating quickly so there's a chance that I'll hook up with this guy and have one night stand immediately lol.

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    • percymercy
      percymercy commented
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      I think you are a horny woman for making a move with him quickly and sleeping with him for the first time.

    • vixenvicky
      vixenvicky commented
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      PerkyJerky it depends if I had fun with him. I have guys from one-night stand that eventually becomes my hook up buddy. percymercy I guess I'm young and wanna live my life to the fullest, lol.

    • percymercy
      percymercy commented
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      vixenvicky Do you usually do that to your hook up?

  • #15
    I'll want us to be friends first and it feels safer because I already knew him from the start. I no longer need to bring a pepper spray with me.

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    • routinetine
      routinetine commented
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      I also prefer dating a friend and it feels more comfortable being with them.

    • d1ckhandl3r
      d1ckhandl3r commented
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      Do you really bring pepper spray with you during dates just in case something happens?

    • anxiousme
      anxiousme commented
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      routinetine I agree! It's like you don't need to be ashamed of everything right.
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