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    Okay, so, KINK will be needing the use of props, costumes, and role-play to enhance partner intimacy. Do you think that having kinks in a relationship would help the relationship last long? Why or why not?

  • #2
    I think that having kinks in a relationship might help if the two are on the edge of their relationship. It means that they needed something more in their dull relationship, that is, adding kinks to make their relationship last long and I think it might help both of them discover more about their sexuality.


    • wigeon
      wigeon commented
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      There are sexual couples and they can somehow easily get bored with having too much sex too, so, what more if they'd get to discover each other's kinks too? I think that those kinks would be more applicable for people who do not have a label for each other instead of those couples who have been together for so long.

    • nipples
      nipples commented
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      Okay, you are right. Having kinks when you are already at the edge of your relationship will help it prolong the relationship. But the question is, until when?

    • LoveHoney
      LoveHoney commented
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      nipples Don't know exactly when or how but if these two have tried hard enough and still the relationship would end, well, at least they've tried figuring out what their kinks might be, lol!

  • #3
    I think some kink might even be the cause of ending a perfect relationship. So, I guess both partners should discuss this properly to know if there's a need to discover some kinks or not at all.


    • boringyou
      boringyou commented
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      Why would the kinks be the cause of the ending of the relationship? I think that it would even extend the relationship?

    • sunnyscenster
      sunnyscenster commented
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      How do you discover your kink? Do you need to have research on it, then think if that suits your liking?

  • #4
    I don't think that the span of the relationship is based on your sex life. In fact, I don't think that there is even a connection between the two. The span of a relationship is based on the love and care of both partners to each other.


    • BabySaltWicked
      BabySaltWicked commented
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      But of course, if those couples have been together for so long then sex would play an important part in their relationship to make their bond strong, right? If they'd tried other things outside of the bedroom then maybe they should consider exploring each other's kinks.

    • Pedaedia
      Pedaedia commented
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      Yeah, I don't think that having a kink in a relationship would help you two have a great sex life, though the thrill of having kinks in a relationship is okay, though it is not a requirement, just think of it.

  • #5
    It says that kinks can help enhance partner intimacy, maybe I should try this with my future partner just to see how things will go if our sex life might even be the reason why we lasted long in our relationship. Hmm, fair enough.


    • FantasticLil
      FantasticLil commented
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      Well, that could be the case. Somehow, it really helps in the intimacy. You would have more interactions with each other sexually.

    • butterflyanxious
      butterflyanxious commented
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      I know that sex is somehow important when it comes to relationships because of intimacy and how you can become open with each other.

    • Laicah33
      Laicah33 commented
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      Don't you just love sexual interactions? Just so your partner would bee contented enough with you and he won't be looking for another if you have discovered his kinks or fetishes.

  • #6
    No. It will not help the relationship to last long. It will actually make the relationship stay shorter. Why? Because a day would come and you would already lose interest with each other as you have done so many things already.


    • JannahVC
      JannahVC commented
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      Ah, so what does it need to be done to make a relationship last longer? If it's not about the kinks, then what is it exactly? If the love is not there then should they consider breaking up already?

    • imperfectme
      imperfectme commented
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      It means to say that whatever you do, if the love is no longer there, then it would be impossible to save it even if you'd inject kinks during your intimacy or sexy time. Well, if love is all gone, then it is never going to come back.

    • alottavagina
      alottavagina commented
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      I agree with imperfectme sometimes if there is no love then you should not fix or work for it anymore. Since there's nothing left to it already.

  • #7
    Kinks in relationships would make it exciting and thrilling. But would you always do some kinks whenever you have sex? Would not that be too much to take?


    • Bang56
      Bang56 commented
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      Not exactly do those kinks every time you two would have sex. Consider that maybe there would be a time when you'd ask permission to your partner if he or she would allow you to perform kinks or any acts when you two are in bed.

    • Masterbabe
      Masterbabe commented
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      not always but maybe sometimes you two should put up a show to entertain yourselves. Of course, everyone loves a little bit of entertainment and fun, right?

  • #8
    Do we need to discover our kinks. Or is natural that we already know the kinks that we have?


    • bollersdiorite
      bollersdiorite commented
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      Sometimes we have to do things like exploring and discovering if that kind of kink is for us to have. Clearly, we are free to discover what kind of kink that we have or if there is none at all.

    • innocentgirl
      innocentgirl commented
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      Sometimes kinks and fetishes come out naturally when it needs to be or sometimes you just have to discover it just to be sure if you do have it.

  • #9
    But not all people would have kinks. Most people do not have any kinks at all, and no matter what they do, they would not have one. Is it okay to say that only those too sexual ones are the ones who have kinks?


    • goodmanners
      goodmanners commented
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      Some people I know are too sexual but they do not have kinks at all. To my surprise, I know some people who look so innocent but knows a thing or two about kinks and fetishes.

    • Caila99
      Caila99 commented
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      I think it is normal to HAVE kinks and NOT to have one at all. If couples think that this could be another way to help them achieve a different kind of intimacy then let them explore their kinks. We don't know that maybe this might help a lot!

    • skuzzvibe
      skuzzvibe commented
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      Yeah, not all people have kinks and that's okay. They should try other things that might help their relationship work out again.

  • #10
    So, what would be a good role-play? I think that wearing those clothes of the nuns and priests would be a nice idea. It defies the norm, so that makes it exciting. Lol.


    • monsterjunk
      monsterjunk commented
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      This would be nice if you have the complete package: role-playing, costumes and with the props. It would be nicer if it would also be done on the actual place like a real cathedral. Lol.

    • janeDaLioness
      janeDaLioness commented
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      I hope that you have an open-minded partner that won't get easily offended for the things that you're about to do there, KatVonMe.

    • AlivePerfect
      AlivePerfect commented
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      I think everything that kinks, fetishes, and BDSM kind of things defy the norms of what people think when you say the word SEX. Yes, there is more to it than just the idea when SEX is being said. By that, people are open to exploring the depts of their kinks when it comes to sex in a long term relationship.

  • #11
    Kinks are sexual behaviors which are not common. So, if you have sex while strap on the ceiling, then that would be a strange and thrilling kink.


    • Amazeelan
      Amazeelan commented
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      What? Like you are flying? Then how are you going to do that one? Like you would use harnesses to keep yourself on the air?

    • dreamnow
      dreamnow commented
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      Some couples do have kinks or do have fetishes and it takes both of them to be willing to try things out. That's the beauty of exploring things together.

    • MoneyerHoney
      MoneyerHoney commented
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      AglowNum LOL, that's too much! It would be nice to have kinks only if you're aware that your partner is experimental or whatever.

  • #12
    If your partner is into porn then you should at least try and steal his attention away from it, and how is that you ask? Try experimenting by using costumes, props, and do a little reenacting with him. I may not be perfect as you expect it but he will surely appreciate the effort that you've put up for him.


    • surfjock
      surfjock commented
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      If my partner starts reenacting porn during our lovemaking sessions then I think I would love to marry this woman already. She's been putting much effort to impress me and I think that one's a keeper already.

    • financialcowbird
      financialcowbird commented
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      You can easily get a guy's attention especially if you're inviting him to have sex with you. Sometimes it is easy to lure a man if you'd work your charms well on him.

  • #13
    I think not, because if a partner wants to finally end their relationship then they should end it without anything holding them back like experimenting kinks on their relationships. Yeah, let's just consider that even that one will never work.


    • JustaGuy99
      JustaGuy99 commented
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      Sex is important in a relationship but kinks is a bit too much, I think? Some would consider this one and some will not if they do not feel comfortable with it.

    • newkidda
      newkidda commented
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      I do not think that kinks would help that much, only a little maybe but all in all, it's just sex. Sex would not help mend a relationship that is slowly being torn apart.

  • #14
    Nope. You don't really need props during sex in order to make the relationship stronger. Just because it works for a certain couple, it doesn't mean it will have the same effect on the both of you