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  • Is It A Deal Breaker?

    Is dating someone who's a kink an immediate deal breaker for you or not? If it's not a deal breaker, is there a certain kink that would make you stop seeing him?

  • #2
    I'm fine with the most common ones like the feet, wearing heels, or armpits. The deal breaker for me is anything that involves bodily fluids or excrements


    • VanessaMEA
      VanessaMEA commented
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      What about the feet? Are you referring to the licking of feet? Oh, no. I would not do that one. And if he had a kink on feet, then could he just replace it with a pussy?

    • percymercy
      percymercy commented
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      Wearing heels? Who would wear the high heels? Would it be the men? Lol.

    • FantasticLil
      FantasticLil commented
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      janeDaLioness How about you? I only see that in porn videos.

  • #3
    well for me generally kinks are fine, it's just that some kinks are just gross and nasty like one time my ex-boyfriend wanted to spice up
    our relationship by peeing on me while having sex though I gave it a try cause I love him but it didn't turn me on I just felt weird and
    dirty in a no horny way but some kinks are okay like busting a nut on my face


    • babycakez23
      babycakez23 commented
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      Was he trying to be R. Kelly that's why he peed on you?

    • Caila99
      Caila99 commented
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      I experienced the same thing, it didn't feel really good it's like pouring warm water on my face
      but the water is yellow and smells really weird but I was open about with my partner and said
      that I didn't like it so he stopped doing it

  • #4
    That would be an immediate deal breaker for me even if it's just the common ones


    • AlivePerfect
      AlivePerfect commented
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      imperfectme I know right! That's why you should try it.

    • imperfectme
      imperfectme commented
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      Yeah sure! I am just waiting for the perfect

    • clssc
      clssc commented
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      shizzlygizzly Same here, I would literally stop seeing him.

  • #5
    I'm a really open-minded person where if my boyfriend develops a weird fetish or want to try a different kink I would be down to do it with him since kinks really excite the both us but if your not as open as me you can just say it to your partner since your not enjoying it also I think sex and kinks should be enjoyed by both parties so don't be afraid to tell your partner because they should understand


    • snoogywookie
      snoogywookie commented
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      What if the kink that he has is something that you consider as gross or its a hard no for you?

  • #6
    Originally posted by anitabanger View Post
    I'm fine with the most common ones like the feet, wearing heels, or armpits.
    Speaking of armpits, I know someone who dated a guy who has an armpit fetish. She told me that he would often lick her armpits during sex


    • Nica55
      Nica55 commented
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      I know someone who like licking men's hairy armpits. I do not know why she loves doing it. She once told me that it makes her horny.

    • pms60
      pms60 commented
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      Armpits are better than feet, for me. I love how armpits smell like natural sweat and some are naturally hairy too. I'm talking about men's armpits, most of the guys I've dated have nice deodorants that would make their armpits irresistibly good!

    • anxiousme
      anxiousme commented
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      biglifter lick her armpits during sex? that would be

  • #7
    for me kinks are fine and it really helps relationships bloom I mean sex
    is just sex but if you add different types of things and kinks it really spices
    up any relationship but It should be okay with both sides when doing it


    • JannahVC
      JannahVC commented
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      I think men would love to know first if the woman they're with has any kinds of kinks or fetishes before they would introduce theirs to her. I do agree on you with that one BabySaltWicked that those are some factors that can help spice up a relationship that you and your partner have.

  • #8
    weird kinks are the best like role-playing into something really different like an alien
    I don't know it really turns me on when I'm pretending to be something I want it's like
    a surge of sexual energy building inside me


    • ingotjubilant
      ingotjubilant commented
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      Oh, speaking of aliens, I wanted to try this sex toy which is an alien dick that lays eggs inside of the woman. Well, I'm still thinking about buying one because it looked weird and hot at the same time. I could imagine those alien eggs would lay inside of my tight pussy just feels so damn good.

  • #9
    It depends on his kink. If he has a strange kink that I would refuse to participate to, then it is a deal breaker for me. If it is something that I could tolerate, then there would be no problem with me.


    • funfun88
      funfun88 commented
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      Sometimes people find it hard to tolerate some kinks which are too weird for them to do, so why not let them do something else or none at all? I mean, they are not being forced to participate in these kinks and fetishes, right?

  • #10
    It would make me stop if his kinks are the very strange ones. Like, pissing on the face for example. Watching it makes me cringe; how much more if it would be done to me? Yuck, urine has this salty taste.


    • TeaStory
      TeaStory commented
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      But what if this man wants to experience 'The Golden Shower' with you? Wherein, he will let YOU pee all over him, yeah, the other way around. Would you like that one, @clusygirl?

    • fanghang
      fanghang commented
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      That is really gross. I would not want to experience those things honestly.

  • #11
    For a one night stand, it would be a deal breaker. You expected him to have a large cock, then later on to be disappointed due to his small dick. Oh, well.


    • innocentgirl
      innocentgirl commented
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      Are you going to get out of the room once you find out that he has a kink?

    • blizzss
      blizzss commented
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      We're talking about kinks here and not about dick size, honey lol

  • #12
    Is there a kink where there's much pain and blood will be involved? If this man has that kind of kink then I'm out! I don't want something sexual that would inflict pain and blood, that is not something that I would want.


    • nipples
      nipples commented
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      Not sure when it comes to the blood thing. But when it comes to the pain there is certainly a kink for it

    • heartheart
      heartheart commented
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      What kind of pain are we talking about here? Is it something like being spanked or choked?

  • #13
    Well, for me I am a man of open and unexpected possibilities because I am open to different things no matter how crazy they get if my partner wants to try and do it why not? I can't know if I like it or not if I don't try it out for myself right? so there is no such thing such as a deal-breaker for me since I'm open to trying new things.


    • LessSalt
      LessSalt commented
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      Ah, I love a man who is open to everything just like you! That would be a coincidence too since I am a woman who is open to everything as well, this is why men love a liberated kind of woman like me.

    • imagination
      imagination commented
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      I think that there are things that you would automatically say no to even if you have never tried it before

  • #14
    As long as his kink is not that gross, then I wouldn't mind dating a guy who has a kink.


    • listlisa
      listlisa commented
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      What counts as a gross kink for you? Are those the ones that involve bodily fluids and excrement?

    • Trystingbish
      Trystingbish commented
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      Gross kinks are really different from each other, so what kinks are gross on your side?

  • #15
    I don't have a problem with them as long as it's safe.