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  • Clueless

    Ladies, has any of you openly flirted with a guy in the hopes of sleeping with him but you were not able to do so. I'm talking about him being clueless of your flirty advances.

  • #2
    I've flirted with a guy before who was clueless about it but it was for a date and not for a one night stand.


    • surfjock
      surfjock commented
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      What did you actually say to the guy? Maybe the way you've said it wasn't flirty enough that's why he ignored it.

    • FantasticLil
      FantasticLil commented
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      But did it crossed your mind to have a one-night stand with him?

    • heartheart
      heartheart commented
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      Did he eventually realized that you were flirting with him or he's still clueless up to this day?

  • #3
    Yes and it was during at a house party when I was in college. I pretended that my back was hurting and asking the guy if he can give me a back massage. He told me that he knows a nice spa a few blocks away and he gave me their number.


    • AirBobo
      AirBobo commented
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      So it was a fail? Because he only suggested a spa and not actually massaged you.

    • PerkyJerky
      PerkyJerky commented
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      AirBobo yeah, that automatically counts as a fail in my book as well. Considering that is one of the most porn scenes that they often shoot.

    • stevemcdream
      stevemcdream commented
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      Trystingbish you should be thankful that he suggested a spa and not one of those rug and tug massage parlors.

  • #4
    This happened when I was in college. I've told the guy that I was seeing at the time that my roommate will not be around for the weekend and maybe he can sleep over. He then tells me that he can't since he and his friends are going to have a video game tournament of sorts.


    • vixenvicky
      vixenvicky commented
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      I bet when he told that to his friends they got made at him because he prioritized them over the chance of having non-stop sex with you lol.

    • anxiousme
      anxiousme commented
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      You should have told him that the two of you were going to drink. I bet that he would say ditch his friends for that.

  • #5
    I had experienced this once when I was in college. I was flirting with a guy from the soccer team of my university. One time I went to watch him in the game and my friends said that I should ask him to have sex with me because he was so hot and sexy. The most shocking news is that he said yes when I asked him.


    • backrubsss
      backrubsss commented
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      Did your relationship last long or it was only a one-night-stand?

    • Franshanica89
      Franshanica89 commented
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      I think men from those kinds of games are really open on having sex with girls.

  • #6
    Happens all the time but mostly getting friend-zoned lol. I am not able to pull it off especially what's inside their pants.


    • BabySaltWicked
      BabySaltWicked commented
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      Maybe learn some flirting techniques and try to experiment with new ones.

    • PearBear
      PearBear commented
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      BabySaltWicked I agree on you better pull up some neat tricks and try a different approach.

    • brooksbrioche
      brooksbrioche commented
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      Maybe you should try to walk around wearing some lingerie. I bet they would definitely pull it out for you lol

  • #7
    Never in my life had tried to advance or plan anything because I always expect the unexpected, I try to flirt just to have fun and somehow I manage to get them where I want them to be.


    • BearHug
      BearHug commented
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      Did it work out in all the dates you've been?

    • babycakez23
      babycakez23 commented
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      So did you end up making love with them? I want to know your moves.

  • #8
    Yes, and it was my colleague who is married but he's open to any kind of sexual relationship but I didn't catch too much of his attention because there was this other girl who is much hotter than me.


    • Championia
      Championia commented
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      So you stood no chance to her? You should just try flirting with other colleagues whose open to that kind of relationship.

    • partnerstrick
      partnerstrick commented
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      Sometimes being a hot girl does not satisfy the needs of a man so I suggest that you make your own move to get the attention of your workmate.

    • innocentgirl
      innocentgirl commented
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      How hot was he that you're willing to have a sexual affair with a married coworker?

  • #9
    Yes but afterwards he regretted doing it lol. I was being manipulative and he started kissing me btw we're tipsy. He really respects me too much and he's sweet. I don't want to waste him so I did everything I could to get him off my bed.


    • xXtinaGelo
      xXtinaGelo commented
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      Why would you do that if the cake is already in your mouth? It was your chance to get what you want.

    • heartlistener
      heartlistener commented
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      Really? A tipsy man that respects a woman while already in bed? He could not have been tipsy, after all. But, anyway, you missed your chance. Well, both of you missed the chance. Oh, well.

    • fanghang
      fanghang commented
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      scissorssole Maybe get him in your bed. heartlistener Actually they did it but the man doesn't like it because he respects her but she is being too flirty.

  • #10
    Men are not clueless. They know when women flirt with them. But when they do not care and just ignore the flirty advances by those women, then it only means one thing: They do not like you. So, please stop when this situation occurs.


    • Bang56
      Bang56 commented
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      There might be some who just ignore them, but most of us are actually clueless. Trust me, I'm a guy lol.

    • blizzss
      blizzss commented
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      Does that reflect what you have experienced already?

  • #11
    Yes, I did that stuff in the past. Of course, he knew that I was already flirty and all for him. And happened next? He just laughed at all my efforts. Hell, I have learned that not everyone whom we want would actually be reached out. Sometimes, when the case is already futile, then we already need to stop.


    • issues98
      issues98 commented
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      Well actually if you're going to flirt. Make sure that he is quite interested in you at the start.

    • Readeronic
      Readeronic commented
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      That would be disappointing if ever that happens to me and I may be scared doing that step again to other guys.

  • #12
    If you flirted and you did not get the man, then you did it incorrectly. Most men would respond to flirty women. Well, to almost all women with some exceptions. When you do not look that good, then expect that you would be rejected by a man no matter how hard you do the flirting.


    • nipples
      nipples commented
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      Are you telling me that she poorly executed his attempt to get the guy? That would be sad if he thinks that you are not that good looking.

    • allaboutlove
      allaboutlove commented
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      I suggest that she should get him drunk first so she'll turn to be a good looking woman to him lol.

    • hamster11
      hamster11 commented
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      What do you mean that she might have done it wrong? I think that being ignored by the guy means that he's not interested in you.